Many residents of Hawaii are frustrated by some of the challenges that come with the islands being a popular travel destination. This frustration can sometimes lead to tension between locals and visitors. This section is designed to help visitors understand local etiquette and avoid misunderstandings during their stay.
Drive with care and courtesy
Treat the roads as you would in a small hometown. Be patient in traffic, let others merge when possible, and drive with a friendly, calm demeanor. If you're exploring the island, you may encounter residential areas where keiki (children) are playing. Please slow down and stay alert. Always reduce your speed in areas where people are walking or recreating. Locals are particularly sensitive to the behavior of drivers, so it's important to drive safely and attentively.
Respect speed limits and be mindful of traffic
When you’re outside of towns, neighborhoods, and beaches, make sure to follow posted speed limits. Driving significantly below the speed limit—especially on highways—can cause traffic backups. I've seen this frequently on the drive to the North Shore, where drivers often go 5-10 miles below the speed limit without realizing they’ve created a line of cars behind them. Please be mindful of traffic flow and adjust your speed accordingly.
Leave no trace
Make it a point to leave every place cleaner than when you arrived. If you bring a cooler to the beach, for example, be sure to pick up all your trash before you leave. Respect the environment and the community by doing your part to keep the island beautiful.
Respect personal space and be considerate of others
Kauai locals value their space and privacy, so try not to encroach on others' personal areas. If the beach or park isn’t crowded, there’s no need to set up right next to someone else. Also, be considerate of others by keeping noise levels down—avoid loud music, disruptive conversations, or boisterous play that might disturb those around you.
Never turn your back on the ocean
The ocean around Hawaii can be unpredictable, with swells that can change in an instant. Visitors often get caught off guard by large waves, especially when they are taking pictures near the water. It’s essential to stay vigilant at all times—never turn your back on the ocean. Waves can come in quickly, and the water can be deceptively calm between swells. Tragically, visitors get swept away every day, so always exercise caution.
Swim safely and follow lifeguard instructions
Whenever possible, swim near lifeguarded areas, and always heed the posted signs and warnings. Lifeguards are there to help, but their job shouldn’t be to save people from preventable accidents. Ocean currents can be powerful, and many visitors overestimate their swimming abilities. Stay safe by following the guidelines and swimming in designated areas.
